As we walk our path our task is to be self reflective, self observational. We tend to get stuck in places of Identity (which is separation) when in fact we must learn the seed of this identity and call in the ability to heal this aspect so a balanced aspect can arrive. If we like the idea of being “who we are” at the end of a spectrum we do not give ourselves the divine permission to find our way to harmony.
If we are hard all the time we are not learning the ways of softness. If we are too soft we are not standing with strength.
Where in you is there a place that needs harmonization?