We have to surrender to the fact that we can possibly only be known by perhaps less than 10%. So much of what we are will remain unknown to even the most intimate partner. Recognizing this we have to own our own process. Our own guidance. Our own healing. There will be important players who come in to assist us. And without them we could not do the work. But all of our work is internal. If we give up our power to others in our process we are not aligned to our own inner guidance system. Which is the best one in the multiverse for us. This system can tap into the Great Wisdom.